Board Thread:The Official Announcement Board/@comment-4869113-20150718180437/@comment-26193148-20150720165828

But you notice. We have a conversation. We do it via chat or we do it vs Skype. it's always one on one. Like it's a chance for each other to explain shit. And listen. I feel like the issue is that no one is humble with one another. You think im better than you. And I think you're better than me. So whenever we give each other advice, it's like "Shit he's better than me, I should listen." But it's different here. People think they're better than others. ANd it becomes a "My method and my theory makes sense. You have to follow it." When in truth I could make Goku and like it wouldn't be breaking any rules.

I think it's that people forget that this is all a choice. Now for the talk pages. Yes sometimes people jump to conclusion (Myself on a few occasions) but that's because it always involves like 3 people ganging up on one person. And it's never filled with tips. I don't think i can find one talk page comment where the words "Try this instead" is used. It's always asking how is it possible and saying it's either stupid or absurd. If people started giving advice rather than simply saying how its stupid NF would be waaaay better. Give advice. Don't just say somehting is stupid. Because that's not helping.

"Bro, your daughter looks like a slut." vs "Bro, you shouldn't dress your daughte rup like that, because she seems a bit slutty."

Remember how we talk to each other chart. It's always,. "Bro you should try this. I think that would be better."

Never "Thats stupid."