Thread:Silver-Haired Seireitou/@comment-4347663-20130316170459/@comment-2089817-20130317015838

I don't think a discussion in chat will be necessary, but if need be, I will meet you there. However, I feel as though this is a matter in which an actual discussion would not be beneficial. In fact, what I believe is needed here is for you to understand something. So, therefore, I will be speaking and I suggest you read, heed, and comprehend my words well.

This is a non-negotiable situation. You are welcome to your opinions, prejudices, preferences, and likewise, but this is not a place for such things. I was seriously appalled by your behaviour from what I heard. It doesn't matter what you said, but rather the way you said it. The intent behind your words. It doesn't matter if you think you did no wrong. Evil will always find a way to justify its own actions. Of course, that's a bit too harsh here... I wouldn't call it "evil" per se, but even so, it is something that can not go unpunished and without reprimanding. Nanja (my nickname for Njalm) isn't one to change the facts in a story, especially in regards to a serious issue such as this, and as a friend of mine and a respected man among his peers, I trust his word. Now, of course, it doesn't mean I would disregard your words either, but based on the information I've been presented, you were in the wrong on the matter. Let me elaborate.

You may think your words meant nothing because you claim to have friends whom are also homosexual, but that hardly means anything. Here are the facts. Nanja found your words to be rather condescending. As if you were holding an elitest view over him because of his sexuality, which is an extremely horrible outlook to have. Whether you really have it or not, and I'm not saying you do, it doesn't mean anything if a fellow user perceives it as such. It is just as destructive to the community and just as insulting to the user, regardless of your intentions. It came across as though you thought his sexuality was some sort of sickness; some kind of disorder that makes him less of a person than other people. And that is, without a doubt, something horrible. Wikia is a place of expression, that much is clear. Nanja has every right to express aspects of himself with the reassurance that he will not be judged nor his reputation affected because of it. Whether you meant to or not, that is what it came across, not just to Nanja but even to me, based on what I've seen, comes across as basically you trying to say Nanja should be grateful that you tolerate his sexuality. And that is incredibly insulting.

I don't need to see screenshots and I don't need to hear "He said this, I said that, He said that, and I said this." either. I want you to apologize to Nanja for your words and to refrain yourself from doing this in the future. Otherwise, I may need to administer a block, and I would rather not it come to that, Swan. You're a well-liked user here, from my understanding, with a lot of potential, and I'd hate for you to have to leave over something like this.

If need be, we can discuss this further, but this is, as I said, non-negotiable. I expect an apology on his message wall or to him directly through the Chat.