User blog comment:Silver-Haired Seireitou/Time to Cool Down and Reassess Things/@comment-6003865-20140903211409/@comment-28861328-20140904010000

People need to learn to share the same space. As I was telling Kay earlier, arguments, themselves, aren't a bad thing. Good things can come of them. Its when it is reduced to flaming that things go overboard and step into the realm of uncalled for. You have to let users argue, otherwise you get to this: where everyone has bottled up frustrations with each other and it comes spewing out like vomit. But if you see a flame war start, step in. Ban or at least warn, the users as a deterrent. A lot of users are good friends here, I get that, but the problem doesn't stop just by hugging each other and moving on. You have to draw lines and enforce the rules when they're crossed. If Dal hates me for doing that, then I truthfully don't care.