Board Thread:The Official Announcement Board/@comment-4869113-20150718180437/@comment-4869113-20150720164849

Well, see con, that's exactly what I'm talking about to. If someone comments a page, because neither Daz nor I were extremely hostile with our comments, then someone else shouldn't jump in an accuse someone of being an asshole. Most discussions begin with disagreement, and then they generally reach a conclusion as you discuss more; personally, that's how I discuss things with people on chat. I layer out what I think is the issue, then I let them respond to ensure that i'm not mistaking it for something else, then I proceed. I think a lot of people do it that way.

In fact, we see users do that a lot on chat, but people have this mentality that it's automatically "bullying". People here say they care about one another, but if you did, then they wouldn't be afraid of speaking up. For example, when you and I do something stupid, we tell eachother. And it's not always "do this instead.." Most of the time it's, "don't do that shit bro" because we respect and care about one another.