Thread:Berserkchart486/@comment-2089817-20151117215118/@comment-26193148-20151118045033

Well we are continuing.

The question is not to cripple yourself to the level of others. I'm an arrogant asshole, the world knows that. The answer is to actually guide others but only the willing. If you try to guide a bunch of unwilling people, this happens.

The overall subject you are missing is that...And this is just what I'm seeing, no one wants you to "guide" them. And I'm not saying you'd be bad and I'm not saying you'd be good. Kin touched upon a good subject. You've done good with BFF because that's how the people there work. But NF is exponentially larger than BFF with more users and a significantly higher traffic rate (Or it seems that way). In order for you to be able to implement your ideas, the community has to want you too.

Like what if those three individuals, you forced them to follow your method of Martial Arts and said you couldn't pursue anything else. They wanted to study under you and they desired to get better through your method because your method fits them.

No man has the answers. We only find what we like and we toss the rest away. Every person has a specific path and method of learning. I am a Fencer. It's in my blood, I love it and I believe I was probably a musketeer in my past life. When I fence, I always go against this older guy who fences like he invented the sport. Because I persevere in adversity. I get better as I am challenged. But there are people who require differnet methods of learning, people who need to be shown and not fought.

Another point I have to touch upon is, you have controlled NF during various times in it's history, so users have experienced your methods and they're saying "No. I don't want it." They see how you run BFF and are saying "No. I don't want it." At that point, the only thing you can do is accept it.

I understand, everyone screaming no at you can be bothersome. But if the community is telling you No, even if they had not given you a chance, you can't do anything. That's what me and chart are trying to tell you. Because we're tired of the drama and the arguments. The Community is saying no and you're insisting on something they're denying rampantly.

I'm not discussing personalities because, well, we are who we are and we all have gone through trial and tribulations who shaped us into who we are.